NewStats: 3,265,533 , 8,187,120 topics. Date: Sunday, 15 June 2025 at 03:59 PM 4si13

Good day my Nairaland fam . Hope una dey enjoy una day? As for me,since I no see any Salah ram chop from any of my Muslim friend,I just kukuma mind my business like say tomorrow no dey...Any ways,we move

Well,there's something that's been bothering me lately....In fact,it's a decision I regret so much . Lemme hit the point straight up....... There's this friend of mine who had been searching for a good lady to wife....And there's equally been a lady,my banny's friend precisely,who has also been looking for a responsible man to marry as well......She had always been on our nerves to please help her find the love of her life, just like ours 😂. Cuz she was loving the way my banny and I used to play a lot and joke....But little did she know that behind those playful moments we showcase publicly,there are numerous real life punches that can end any marriage let alone any relationship .....So,out of the abundance kindness of my heart 😌. I thought,"oh, these two peeps ought to be the next couple in town

So I match-fixed the both of them,that was after, seeking permission from both of them and of which they both obliged.......we exchanged their WhatsApp numbers between them and everything was going well, according to my poor innocent instincts 😏.

But just yesterday,the lady in question sent my banny a message on WhatsApp, raining all sorts of thunderous insults on my friend . After numerous "please,calm down" from my banny and I,she finally let the dog out of her bag....Her reason was that after their first date,which was yesterday,my friend was insisting on spending the night with her . But that didn't sit well with her.....That she couldn't fathom the idea of spending the night with someone whom she just met within a day . That was when I quietly asked my banny to ask her-"Did he spend his money on you?". Her reply was "yes,na Normal thing na" .
At that moment,I thought within myself,"so na normal thing to chop man money for the first time of meeting but na abnormal thing to spend the night for the man place for the first time of meeting am? WOW"

So this morning,I chatted my friend up on Whatsapp,and he was really furious......He told me that that wasn't his initial idea but something made him change his mind........That while they were together,gisting and chilling,he noticed that a certain number was calling her endlessly but she refused to pick.....But after much talks from him,she picked up the call and it seemed it was a guy who called her....And from his own observation,she was in a serious relationship 🤔. So he couldn't take it and decided to end it all right there by doing what he did.....Tho initially I thought that was a very childish thing for him to do,but when I thought about it critically,I realized it wasn't,or was I really over-thinking about it🤔

Now,my friend isn't happy with me,for not letting him know what he was about going into . While the lady is equally angry with my banny for not letting her know she was about going to a *date* with a madddman(according to her tho)

So, Nairalanders,did we do wrong by trying to match-fix these two ? Cuz my banny and I have been in regrets since this pandemonium between the both of them came up😌

Nlfpmod
Mynd44
Obembet

The only thing I know is that you're a good writer. Keep it up!

No mind the lady,she felt she's too wise when you in a relationship already,why can't she come out plain that she was in a relationship already.Selfish self centred and greed girl.

yeyebrity:
The only thing I know is that you're a good writer. Keep it up!

. Thank you..

joceey:
No mind the lady,she felt she's too wise when you in a relationship already,why can't she come out plain that she was in a relationship already.Selfish self centred and greed girl.

. Abi...e shock me I swear.

Sonnobax15:
Good day my Nairaland fam . Hope una dey enjoy una day? As for me,since I no see any Salah ram chop from any of my Muslim friend,I just kukuma mind my business like say tomorrow no dey...Any ways,we move

Well,there's something that's been bothering me lately....In fact,it's a decision I regret so much . Lemme hit the point straight up....... There's this friend of mine who had been searching for a good lady to wife....And there's equally been a lady,my banny's friend precisely,who has also been looking for a responsible man to marry as well......She had always been on our nerves to please help her find the love of her life, just like ours 😂. Cuz she was loving the way my banny and I used to play a lot and joke....But little did she know that behind those playful moments we showcase publicly,there are numerous real life punches that can end any marriage let alone any relationship .....So,out of the abundance kindness of my heart 😌. I thought,"oh, these two peeps ought to be the next couple in town

So I match-fixed the both of them,that was after, seeking permission from both of them and of which they both obliged.......we exchanged their WhatsApp numbers between them and everything was going well, according to my poor innocent instincts 😏.

But just yesterday,the lady in question sent my banny a message on WhatsApp, raining all sorts of thunderous insults on my friend . After numerous "please,calm down" from my banny and I,she finally let the dog out of her bag....Her reason was that after their first date,which was yesterday,my friend was insisting on spending the night with her . But that didn't sit well with her.....That she couldn't fathom the idea of spending the night with someone whom she just met within a day . That was when I quietly asked my banny to ask her-"Did he spend his money on you?". Her reply was "yes,na Normal thing na" .
At that moment,I thought within myself,"so na normal thing to chop man money for the first time of meeting but na abnormal thing to spend the night for the man place for the first time of meeting am? WOW"

So this morning,I chatted my friend up on Whatsapp,and he was really furious......He told me that that wasn't his initial idea but something made him change his mind........That while they were together,gisting and chilling,he noticed that a certain number was calling her endlessly but she refused to pick.....But after much talks from him,she picked up the call and it seemed it was a guy who called her....And from his own observation,she was in a serious relationship 🤔. So he couldn't take it and decided to end it all right there by doing what he did.....Tho initially I thought that was a very childish thing for him to do,but when I thought about it critically,I realized it wasn't,or was I really over-thinking about it🤔

Now,my friend isn't happy with me,for not letting him know what he was about going into . While the lady is equally angry with my banny for not letting her know she was about going to a *date* with a madddman(according to her tho)

So, Nairalanders,did we do wrong by trying to match-fix these two ? Cuz my banny and I have been in regrets since this pandemonium between the both of them came up😌

Nlfpmod
Mynd44
Obembet

na Tory u dey find oga.


Rest in Jesus name

Sonnobax15:

So, Nairalanders,did we do wrong by trying to match-fix these two ? Cuz my banny and I have been in regrets since this pandemonium

there are two sides to every story and you don't expect me to belive your side without listening to the other person.
Give me your BANNY number let me hear from her too.
😜