NewStats: 3,265,520 , 8,187,069 topics. Date: Sunday, 15 June 2025 at 02:16 PM 1u4i2n

Obierika:


The way you say she's still running from pillar to post implies that she missed a big jackpot by not marrying your friend.

When people go into relationships they usually have a list of deal breakers in their minds therefore the fact that a lady opted out of a relationship due to state of origin is a very valid reason, you have no right to make fun of her because of that!

Na big jackpot, men are the prize 🏆 unfortunately she missed hers

Some single mothers are way better than ladies who are still single & yet to be married. The perspective some of us have towards them ehen! Some single mothers are just so unlucky to find themselves in situations to be called a single mother. I have dated both single mothers & single ladies I can tell you for free that some single mothers are just so unlucky to be in that position. Some are caring, loving and ive. Being a single lady doesn’t guarantee good marriage and also being a single mother doesn’t mean you won’t get it right again. My own cent

ObalendeCMS:
Make sure you have a BAD mother & bad female siblings.

That way you learn how not to be a SIMP!

How does this make one not to be a S!MP?

I am not in of fraud but…Nothing is illegal until you’re being caught. Las las everybody na the!f na who dem catch be barawo. Enjoy your weekend

Jman06:
The truth is that no generation of women is easy to deal with as a man. You just have to choose your poison wisely. Are we talking about the ENPs most of whom act like grown babies when dealing with a man? But would turn Solomons and old souls when it time to nag

I'll choose Genz as my own poison and only hope to get the best. That guy in the other thread just dey yarn opata. Na today?

Yeah! I was one of those who commented on the other thread. Every one is entitled to his/her opinion no be opata talk i doubt if you’re in the age bracket (35+) so you might not relate

Infotubia9ja:


Happily married

May God continue to bless your home

Let the manipulation begin 🎤

Infotubia9ja:

I will be relocating abroad and I will come back in 5 years time to get married to you. Please wait for me.

Are you still waiting?

…9ja my corn-tree

LoneSoldier:


No I said, both of the s where created with one NIN...

Sorry I just modified

LoneSoldier:
Last week, I went to two different banks to create an (UBA and Zenith precisely) , it was created with two different numbers, one NIN.... So my question to the bankers in the house is....

1. Will I need to wait for the UBA bank to send my BVN number to my second line, cause Zenith bank has already sent my BVN number to my first line which I used for the Zenith or will the BVN sent by Zenith bank to my first line be used in my UBA or must it be sent differently like the Zenith bank....

I want to use this s for work tho, and the UBA i really need it to work, cause is important....

Bankers in the house over to you...

Yes, you’re good to go. You can only have one BVN linked to different s.

Penguin2:

Bro!

Are you looking to higher an Executive Manager who is trained in Harvard, Oxford and Cambridge?🤣

😂😂😂
If I see one, I no mind ooo! As long as she has the qualities

Well said…avoid them like plagues if you’re truly within the age bracket (35+) they can destroying your mental health, they don’t always have jobs or skills (only few does). They put you on unnecessary pressure, take from you but don’t always have anything good to offer. All they know/want is a baby girl lifestyle make monkey dey work and their baboon dey chop….

ObalendeCMS:
It's been about 20 years since my ex & I parted ways.

I still her phone number & sometimes I want to put a call, out of curiosity.

Anyone know how I can get the phone number out of my memory?

Send me her number By the way, you should have been married by now ahhh! 20 years ago

Eniolohunda:



You want multitasker upon all the attributes you listed above? Last , last na robot you go build before you kill someone daughter

Yes I will marry robot if it can cook my favorite meal (egusi and pounded yam with goat meat)

Samantha125:
I thought we're done discussing about this...😅😅😅

You and who? When, how?

Trymeee:


My reply to your post says you might NEED a wife, but you WANT a maid. I doubt just one maid can fulfil those milestones of yours.

On a Flip side, what makes a good husband?

Create a Topic on “What makes a good husband” that is the only way I can answer your question.

Ouchbabe:

Look no further....I am here

I just sent you a mail…if you’re serious

Samantha125:
Are you a good cook, neat, and smart?🤔

Say no more…a trial will convince you

Trymeee:



Just get a maid.... That's what you need.

The topic says “What makes a woman qualify to be a wife material” not Maid

Eniolohunda:



You want multitasker upon all the attributes you listed above? Last , last na robot you go build before you kill someone daughter

Is this too much for me to ask as a man? Is anything difficult on the list ? Well maybe to you sha

Switruth:
So what will you be doing? You wan keel her? See bro the only thing I found in my wife is respect. Despite her status my wife dey respect me die. Anyway since I'm a chef I do most of the cooking,get the kids ready for school,drop them off and bring them back...

The kids are grown now and her respect still stands. Don't marry love...marry respect.

You’ve spoken well…the question says what will make quality wife material. If it were to be the other way round, I will put out my own list too. Cheers

Na that moment some so called boss will exercise their power. Mtcheeewwww

Peakdesign23:


Thanks 😊

Peakdesign23:
If you're not mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually, financially stable do not marry. I repeat, do not go into marriage.

Key words. “MENTALLY, PHYSICALLY, EMOTIONALLY, SPIRITUALLY, FINANCIALLY STABLE”

The dating/marriage pool is messed up

Samantha125:
Are you a good cook, neat, and smart?🤔

Yes I’m a good cook, neat, smart & intelligent. I will send you a mail maybe when we exchange digits then your find out yourself.

ruthieo:


I am here🤔

Are you for real or joking?

Personally things l’d look out for in a woman to make her qualify to be a wife material.

• A woman who isn’t a toxic feminist
• Loyalty and honesty. These two go a long way in making you a quality wife
• A good cook, neat, smart (someone who can think outside the box) and also respectful
• A woman who is not selfish but ive
• A woman who can represent you.
• Finally, (A multitasker) someone who can effectively perform multiple tasks or responsibilities simultaneously. They are able to switch between different activities and manage their time efficiently to complete all tasks.

Now where is the woman

Idon’tbeliveThis

Well said….but you sound like someone who just ended a relationship

But what if in this scenario i’m the one at fault? also man to man i don’t see anything wrong if you tell your woman you both can work things out it shows you accept your wrong as a man accepting your wrong doesn’t make you a (S!MP) ONLY if she insist on ending the relationship. Relationships/marriage needs tolerance if you’re not ready to tolerate your partner then you’re not ready for a relationship because we’re 2 different people coming from different places, having different backgrounds/mindset/behaviors even in Friendship though it might not be in all cases. Always take note of this, any relationship/marriage that is doing fine do your background checks you will find out they’re practicing tolerance. As for me, it is only when you cheat as a woman I won’t take you back. Not only WOMAN no ONE is irreplaceable irrespective of the gender

But you just said “You currently quit womanizing” my brother Ashawo stilll dey your eye. As una don exchange number na there una problem start. That thing wey dey ur mind, if you never do am you no go rest