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Chingyyy878:
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For a Believer & Male:

1. You can build a prayer and a Word altar that will be consistent and will bring you to the knowledge of God.
2. You can save and adequately plan your life without interruptions.
3. You are able to build and grow your career without any distractions or considerations of "what will she say?". Once you meet, "what will God say"', you are fine.
4. You can make a 2 year, 5 year growth plan.
5. You can build friendships with males and females that will be driven by value and respect not feelings.
6. You can focus on family, etc., so that when you are married you would have done most things you wanted to do for them.
7. You can pray and make excellent choice when you finally decide to be in a relationship/ get married.
8. You can find your God-given purpose and walk and build capacity in it.


There are many, many useful benefits. It is a season that should not be rushed or delayed.

updatechange:
BREAKING:

Anti Peter Obi protest hits Owerri, protesters are saying Obi is trying to force an unpopular candidate on LP in Imo state.

Obi says he wants to fight “godfatherism” but at the same time, he wants to be a godfather.

Is this a "protests that hits Owerri"?; D They didnt see the million man marches?
See how they are covering their faces so their family do not see them. Just collect your N100 from the Supreme Court Governor Uzodinma and go home. Hungry people

Humblelion1987:
Good morning nairaland family, please I have a serious issue which I need your advice.
I met my fiancee 1st March 2022 and everything clicked, within few weeks, we are like people who have been together for years because we share many things in common, we are birthday mates, we like the same food, we are practically like twins. I work as a Key manager in charge of my region in one of the leading multinational company here in Nigeria, why she works as an RN(ed nurse) in one of the top private hospital in the state I base too. I will be 33yrs by September while she will be 25years the same date and month. We are supposed to get married by May this year because am ready and she is ready too, but the parents have been frustrating me, one that am not from there state, we ed through that phase and fixed our traditional wedding next month, the mum and her people now came up with another issue that she must travel abroad before getting married, even when I have tried convincing them that I can't prevent there daughter from traveling even after marriage because I have been nursing same ambition too.

When I met my fiancee, she has been doing bad in her ihealth exams not until I came into her life. I have purchased the form three times in a space of 6 months plus her form for CBT and I do practically everything for my woman. Since we met, she doesn't touch her salary, she doesn't stress herself much about house duties, both washing, cooking and other things because as a bachelor, those are the things I enjoyed doing. I love her so much and she love me too, but am totally confused on what to do as the parents have said point blank that she can only get married when she travels to UK.

She had a serious fight with the parents last night and the mum even called me and told me that if I can't abide by there rules, I should forget about there daughter. Am the only son and my parents are not aware of the situation.

I don't know there problem because as a young man, I leave in a comfortable bungalow, drives good car outside my official car and equally employed one of her siblings on a temporary project am running for my office, which they both earn 60k monthly.

Please I need advise on how to go about this as I have two options in my mind. Should I move on and forget all the money I have spent so far or should I stand by my fiancee who loves me so much and finish the fight?

First go and enrol for IELTS and work on your English language and spelling. It is terrible, That is probably the reason why her family is fighting you.

hazinibones:
Hello Nairalanders,

I have this decision bothering me. I know it is a personal problem, but I believe everyone need some guidance at every point in life.

Straight to it, I have been considering Japa for over two years now and I think the opportunity might be here but I am having a cold feet.

I recently started working for a foreign company as a software engineer and the pay is decent when converted to Naira. Enough to live an averagely comfortable life. But my challenge now is that, I have been talking to some friends that are outside the country and they keep telling me how life is not easy there and cost of living is super expensive out there.

I currently earn $3000, which I plan to either save and travel or startup a business here in Nigeria. Please, Nairalanders with experience, is it worth japa to live an almost average life for almost the rest of your life or investing here in Nigeria and growing wealth?

The healthcare and quality education benefit is there as an advantage for japa though.

Thanks in advance for your responses!

If you are in your twenties, no wife or kids, it is worth it.
If you have a family, it is not worth it unless your wife earns & contributes and you have saved enough.

ijustdey:


https://leadership.ng/dss-complies-with-tinubus-order-vacates-lagos-office-shared-with-efcc/

EFCC should check if anything is missing.

LagosEmir:
It was a big privilege of meeting his Excellency, Mr Peter Obi in Lagos airport as I was waiting for my flight to Owerri airport.

The waiting hall was filled with joy and excitement as Mr Peter Obi walked into the waiting lounge carrying his bag himself ..
Almost everyone in the hall wanted to take pictures with Mr Peter Obi including some foreign nationals in the waiting hall.

Another interesting part of Obi presence was how the APC people that were going for Tinubu inauguration even tried to snap with Obi but shame no gree them. I overheard one of there leaders saying in Yoruba that[b] "Won like man Yi but asiko E otito".[/b]
This clearly shows that even the APC guys knew that Tinubu rigged his way to the presidency .

Mr Peter Obi was going to Asaba but his flight was delayed due to bad weather so we had enough time to interact with him .

See photos below 👇

Believe me, they snapped with him too.
You just didnt notice
Nigerians hardly miss their chances when it comes to snapping with folks of esteemed integrity and honour.

NwekeUG:
I Picked An Igbo Christian To Be My CSO, There's No Islamization Agenda - Shettima



https://igberetvnews.com/1445816/picked-igbo-christian-cso-theres-islamization-agenda-shettima/

Seun Lalasticlala Mynd44

Islamisation agenda, Mr Kashim Shettima is when you are a top funder and sponsor of Boko Haram.
Islamisation agenda, Mr Kashim Shettima is when you refuse to give people land to build churches in their own State, Borno State.
Islamisation agenda, Mr Kashim Shettima, is when you demolish churches in Borno State.
Islamisation agenda, Mr Kashim Shettima, is when under your watch no Christian person was made head or registrar in any of the State-owned schools, despite Southern Borno Christians being the most educated.
Islamisation agenda, Mr Kashim Shettima, is when you ensured the Chibok kidnapp of Christian girls happened under your tenure, despite the Federal Government led by GEJ asking you to close the school. Those girls had their schooling truncated, had their lives truncated as they became sex slaves and raped by terrorists, converted into Muslims.
Islamisation agenda, Mr Kashim Shettima. ?
Islamisation agenda, Mr Kashim Shettima is when you mandated all schools to have the "hijab" as a form of student uniform, include private schools which were not owned by you.
Islamisation agenda, Mr Kashim Shettima, is when the Maraba bomber was found in the Borno State Government House while you were Governor. him?
Islamisation agenda, Mr Kashim Shettima is when you turned Wulari Jerusalem, which was a place where Christians lived and built their churches, into a habitation of mosques. Who destroyed the churches that used to be there?
Islamisation agenda, Mr Kashim Shettima.... Should I go ahead?
You are an ethnic jingoist, a pathological liar, and a terrorist sympathizer and er. Can you explain your leaked audio with Kunle Amosun?

I laugh at the people that do no know what you are coming to do in Nigeria.

KiNg0G:
Will you blame me? Just this year alone I have slept with 28 girls all prostitute and I did it raw with some of them.

It started last 2week lymph node appeared at the back of my head. While streaming on TikTok they say it's the early signs of HIV. Since Thursday I have been feeling fiverish.. with muscle pain it keeps recurring. I got discharged on Saturday but ran back to the hospital this early morning because I couldn't sleep at night. The doctor was forced to do a general test on me, at first I wanted to insist because I know my yansh will open because have already concluded I'm HIV positive with all this symptoms but I had no choice.. I'm still here in the hospital fixed on drip and the test results just came in to my surprise the nurse said my sugar level is good and I'm HIV negative

This is the same status I have been avoiding
to check because I have made up my mind I'm infected.
I have been thinking how to go for HIV program and the antiviral drug

Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body - 1Corinthians 6:18

Flangelo12:


Tell us how you were deported

Dem dey deport person with three ports?

Flangelo12:


The man was deported.

That's the reason he can't go abroad anymore.

If he sure for am make e enter plane go UK tonight.

Same man that was announced and clapped for at Jesus House, London?
Do you people really know how deportation works?

DaddyJapan:


That's because Sowore does not subscribe to the hagiography currently doing the rounds.
He knows Obi is as corrupt as all other leading candidates in the 2023 Presidential elections.

This is very sad.
Do we have any evidence of this Peter Obi's alledged corruption? Anywhere? Please send it to me. Thanks.

iwaeda:


https://leadership.ng/just-in-borno-assembly-member-elect-dies/

He was obviously killed.

otuomasirichi:
Why killing your fellow woman over an ordinary boyfriend you can get another day.

Women of nowadays are becoming something else

Why killing your fellow woman over an ordinary boyfriend you can get another day.

Does she look like she can get another boyfriend?

IyaebeTheGreat:
Tell obi to stop jumping everywhere for coming third and claiming what does not belong to him. Nigerians made their choice and everyone is cool with that, why is obi trying to cause problems in Nigeria? Is he the first contestant to lose election? Has he forgotten he came third?

In the light of Nigeria being a democracy and supposedly carrying out a democratic elections, you want Peter Obi to hide himself like Nigeria is a miltary regime or what? You want him not to honour events? You want him not to honour invitations by the Press?

Do you people really know what democracy is?

fergie001:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wNNrvGuJ3Gw


"You negotiate for power, you don't fight for it. I think Peter Obi was in a rush. When the campaign started and our PDP Governors said, 'They must produce the president among them,' he got scared and left (PDP). I didn't get scared but stood up against the Governors."

"It's a fact that Peter Obi took our votes from the south-east and south-south,"
LOL. Are we in a Democracy? Did you give anyone your votes? Or did people make their own choice? The arrogance of Atiku, he wont learn.

justyhere:
I just discovered the shock of my life. My friend is about to get married in a month’s time to this wealthy fine man, she's a few weeks pregnant and looks pretty happy.

Last week, I was with her and her fiancee came around, it was all fun and we took several pictures and I needed to get them so the guy just handed me his phone to send the pictures to my phone.

They are a very clingy couple and they left to the bedroom to go do their thing, maybe to keep me company or maybe he forgot or for whatever reason, but he didn't get his phone. I was done with the transfer and was just going through his photos randomly, I saw a folder and there are pictures and videos of him doing sexual things with different female corpses. I was so terrified, I returned the phone to home Page, cleared the recently used apps and I left immediately, I have not been in with my friend for days now, she keeps calling, I can't bring myself to speak to her.

But I feel guilty and angry, angry that he would do such and even record them and keep them, guilty that I am letting my best friend into a trap of a marriage.

What do I do in this case? I'm so confused and worried.

Are you still thinking? Report that to your friend very quickly.

dele1727:




Imagine saying prepare for war....

This obi people will later say that its others that are instigating crisis....

The people who have been killed and assassinated are Labour Party people only. Why?

1. Christopher Elehu, Labour Party house of assembly candidate
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/12/gunmen-kill-labour-party-candidate-in-imo/

2. Victoria Chintexx, the women leader of the Labour Party (LP) in Kaura LGA of Kaduna State.
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/11/2023-lp-condemns-victoria-chintexs-assassination-demands-probe/

Bede2u:
Will yorubas vote Tinubu if he was an Igbo man?

LMAO. Of course they wont.

ElSudani:


I read the laughable poll on which Bloomberg based their headline. Less than 2000 people were polled and it was done online! Seriously, in Nigeria?

The same laugable polls that showed GEJ will win in 2011, that showed Buhari will win in 2015, that showed Buhari will win in 2019

175:


Why do you urchins always think Peter Obi is an Ibo project sef 🤷

Why?

Abi na delusions to keep the tears dry? 🤣🤣🤣

Well continue. I hope you know that the people of;

Benue
Plateau
Taraba
Delta
Lagos
Akwaibom
Crossriver
Rivers
FCT
Osun
Kaduna (south to be precise)
And the rest that I can now are all Igbo people abi?

Dey play you hear!!!! 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆

It is projection.
It is their strategy at creating a false narrative.

ElSudani:


They are victims of misinformation.

The Western Media has more legit information on Aso Rock and all your top politicians than all your media houses put together.
You think their embassies are just offices?

Okay o

2mercy:


https://dailypost.ng/2023/01/16/peter-obi-dragged-to-federal-high-court-over-alleged-dual-citizenship-faces-disqualification/

A distraction that any recently-qualified lawyer can sort out.

It is "honourary". It is an award.

Lade18:



I'm sorry to comments at this time. But my older cousin in Canada followed a route like this. Took a career break, came to Nigeria, find a man and got married. Now she's happy and told me she's doing finer than before

Glad to hear this. Congratulations to her!

God1000:
This will certainly make or mar them.

To every action, there's an equal and opposite reaction.

Makinde of Oyo might be the biggest loser.

You are a novice in Nigerian politics if you think Makinde wont win Oyo.

humility101:
I met this lovely lady (30 yo) online 2 months ago. She is in Nigeria and I’m in the Uk. We have been actively chatting, phoning and having lots of facetime. She’s got all they qualities I need in a wife. She has also gone to see my peeps once and they said nice things about her.

I’m planning on wedding her this Christmas and she can me immediately (UK can be very lonely without a partner) on a dependent visa.

But sometimes I pause and ask myself, I hope I’m not rushing this whole thing? I hope she is not pretending to be nice? I hope she truly loves me? I hope she is not seeing me as a means to japa? A lot of questions going through my mind. This is marriage and I don’t wanna make mistakes.

Advice me please.

Create a new thread when she starts dealing with you in the UK.

Jeweltz:
Is any of you looking for a wife? I'm � beautiful, educated, respectful, submissive, Godly, know how to cook.

Only a guy living in Canada please, and must not be on student visa.
Men in Nigeria are Heartbreakers and liars

All the best with your desire- that is, if this isnt "cruise", because, come on, there are men in Canada too.

arewaboy01:
Every right thinking Nigerian knows it’s a two horse race btw BAT and Atiku, while the remaining…those Obidients miscreants are living in total Oblivion…

Obidients are living rent free in your heads.

Shalommy:
Chaii... Guyman sorry! I believe she gave him redflag but he ignored. Now she don dish am breakfast

Women and ability is like oil and water. They dont mix.
Instead of you to blame the girl, you are blaming the victim.

Loveurneighbour:

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/11/peter-obi-cant-election-obidients-euphoria-already-dying-dino-melaye/

The way you giys are bothered actually shows the contrary.
Peter Obi is coming.

favouritecandy:
More facts from Reno Omokri. Obi is way behind

If your analysis of this emotive tirade by Reno tells you that Peter Obi is, "way behind", then you need to go back to the schools you attended and ask for your school fees back. Start from Nursery School.

Pandev:
Him Tu Lie

Big Joe that was arrested and detained at the airport when he came to attend the Lagos Rally nko?
GRV that helped release him, did GRV help release a ghost?

lhordspy:
Shot fired.

PFN and CAN will definitely re-align and stop their religolious sentiment. It is against the preaching of God.

Seems god himself have started tormenting them in their dreams for encouraging religious sentimentalism and mixing it with politics.


And morever why everytime we say 'vote competence not religion' . . Zombidients will start crying and wailing. ?

Does that means pandora is just an empty headed Nyam!r! devoid of any trait and xtics of competence ?


Gently reminder: You are not only fighting and antagonising only TINUBU. But you are going against three things namely:

TINUBU vast political influence.
APC vast country well-spread STRUCTURE
AND THE wish of GOD itself.



"Que sera sera" my friends...... What must be, must be

No goddamn miscreants lies, propagandas, 100 million march , insults ,abuse can change that.
Impending defeat will surely visit pandorans... Surely surely! Hard with a little garnish of brutal and painment .

Vote Wisely.

Vote Competence.